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Notes for the hard days

Plain-English articles on trauma, anxiety, and taking care of your mind.

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A gentle guide to your first therapy session

What to expect, what to bring, and why the hardest part is usually just showing up.

Selby Counseling Team

Selby Counseling Solutions

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Insights

Featured

A gentle guide to your first therapy session

What to expect, what to bring, and why the hardest part is usually just showing up.

Selby Counseling Team

Selby Counseling Solutions

Guides

Insights

Featured

A gentle guide to your first therapy session

Guides

Insights

Jul 13, 2026

How trauma shows up in everyday life

Insights

Jul 13, 2026

How trauma shows up in everyday life

Insights

Jul 13, 2026

How trauma shows up in everyday life

Insights

Jul 13, 2026

Grounding techniques that actually work

Trends

Jul 13, 2026

Grounding techniques that actually work

Trends

Jul 13, 2026

Grounding techniques that actually work

Trends

Jul 13, 2026

Small habits that ease anxiety

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Jul 13, 2026

Small habits that ease anxiety

Insights

Jul 13, 2026

Small habits that ease anxiety

Insights

Jul 13, 2026

Featured

Understanding PTSD: it’s not weakness

Why your brain responds the way it does — and how healing actually happens.

Selby Counseling Team

Selby Counseling Solutions

Trends

Featured

Understanding PTSD: it’s not weakness

Why your brain responds the way it does — and how healing actually happens.

Selby Counseling Team

Selby Counseling Solutions

Trends

Featured

Understanding PTSD: it’s not weakness

Trends

Jul 13, 2026

Now accepting new clients in Enid, OK

Insights

Jul 13, 2026

Now accepting new clients in Enid, OK

Insights

Jul 13, 2026

Now accepting new clients in Enid, OK

Insights

Jul 13, 2026

5 myths about therapy to stop believing

Insights

Jul 13, 2026

5 myths about therapy to stop believing

Insights

Jul 13, 2026

5 myths about therapy to stop believing

Insights

Jul 13, 2026

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Good Foods

“We cut our emissions by 22% in six months. The AI made it ridiculously simple.”

Jean Courtney

Good Foods

Ready to feel steady again?

In-person in Enid, OK

Most insurance accepted

Client Portal

Overview

Goals

Appointments

Profile

Billing

Settings

Anxiety score

42

11%

self-reported

Missed sleep

3.4

3%

nights / month

Hard days

12

5%

per year

Progress check-ins

self-reported score

Date

View

1,500

1,000

500

0

Jan

Feb

Mar

Apr

May

Jun

Jul

Aug

Anxiety

Sleep

Mood

Session takeaways

Practice grounding when the worry spiral starts

Name the feeling before reacting to it

One small kind thing for yourself each day

Quick actions

Request appointment

Message the office

Ready to feel steady again?

In-person in Enid, OK

Most insurance accepted

Client Portal

Overview

Goals

Appointments

Profile

Billing

Settings

Anxiety score

42

11%

self-reported

Missed sleep

3.4

3%

nights / month

Hard days

12

5%

per year

Progress check-ins

self-reported score

Date

View

1,500

1,000

500

0

Jan

Feb

Mar

Apr

May

Jun

Jul

Aug

Anxiety

Sleep

Mood

Session takeaways

Practice grounding when the worry spiral starts

Name the feeling before reacting to it

One small kind thing for yourself each day

Quick actions

Request appointment

Message the office

Ready to feel steady again?

In-person in Enid, OK

Most insurance accepted

Client Portal

Overview

Goals

Appointments

Profile

Billing

Settings

Anxiety score

42

11%

self-reported

Missed sleep

3.4

3%

nights / month

Hard days

12

5%

per year

Progress check-ins

self-reported score

Date

View

1,500

1,000

500

0

Jan

Feb

Mar

Apr

May

Jun

Jul

Aug

Anxiety

Sleep

Mood

Session takeaways

Practice grounding when the worry spiral starts

Name the feeling before reacting to it

One small kind thing for yourself each day

Quick actions

Request appointment

Message the office

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